Western Lane: A Novel by Chetna Maroo is a taut, enthralling first novel about grief, sisterhood, and a young athlete's struggle to transcend herself. Western Lane is about three sisters who have lost their mother. Their father is encouraged to provide structure in raising his daughters. Gopi, the narrator, is a squash player, and her father imposes a brutal training regimen. I highly recommend this novel!
Are Good Deeds and Kindness Enough?
Can I Become a Mensch?

Since Jan died in May 2021, I have focused on finding meaning and purpose.
I walk, read, and help others as much as possible.
Is becoming a mensch in my eighth decade possible?
I know that Jan was a mensch among her many accomplishments.
Perhaps I should accept that being her husband is the best I can achieve.
I often say I am a mensch-in-training, but the truth is that it is a designation achieved by the assessment of others, not by our training to become one.
Although I had prepared the essence of my eulogy in one sentence for Rabbi Renee, I will now modify it by deleting mensch-in-training.
Richard lived fully; he loved Jan and brought her with him by sharing her love; he worked to repair the world
and was a mensch-in-training.
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