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Day Two Building Jan's Memorial Garden

Day Two Building Jan’s Memorial Garden

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Jan the GardenerOn Day Two, we made progress on Jan’s Memorial Triangle Garden, although some of it is not visible to the naked eye.

The garbage can hides the foundation for the wind sculpture.

The wind sculpture and some other plants still need to be fully installed.

As of now, both will occur on Thursday, November 3rd, or Friday, November 4th.

The Hanson Park Conservancy is working with  Carole Huber Landscape Architecture to develop the Jan Lilien Memorial Triangle Garden.

Click here for a PDF of the entire design.

I am very grateful to my family, friends, and the Hanson Park Conservancy, who helped make Jan’s Memorial Garden possible.

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Jan’s Memorial Garden Day One

It is the end of Day One, and we made progress on the Jan Lilien Memorial Triangle Garden. We will have more plants and the base for the Wind Sculpture on Friday.

Due to rain, they will not be able to do the foundation for the wind sculpture until Friday.

But work on the garden was started on Jan's six-month birthday!

Richard W. Brown October 24, 2022

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Transcription: A Novel

by Ben Lerner

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I started reading a novel called “How to Love Your Daughter,” written by Hila Blum and translated by Daniella Zamir today. The book explores a complicated relationship between a mother and her grown daughter. It raises the question of how much harm we can do to our loved ones when love blinds us.

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The following passage explains the importance of squash to Gopi and how she views the world.

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The Goodreads summary provides an overview,

Eleven-year-old Gopi has been playing squash since she was old enough to hold a racket. When her mother dies, her father enlists her in a quietly brutal training regimen, and the game becomes her world. Slowly, she grows apart from her sisters. Her life is reduced to the sport, guided by its rhythms: the serve, the volley, the drive, the shot, and its echo.

But on the court, she is not alone. She is with her pa. She is with Ged, a thirteen-year-old boy with formidable talent. She is with the players who have come before her. She is in awe.

An indelible coming-of-age story, Chetna Maroo’s first novel captures the ordinary and annihilates it with beauty. Western Lane is a valentine to innocence, to the closeness of sisterhood, to the strange ways we know ourselves and each other.

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“One of Us,” written by Elizabeth Day, delivers sharp commentary on the hypocrisies of the elite. This engaging ensemble drama explores the dynamics among old friends entangled in dazzling wealth, highlighting the delicate balance between personal ambition and collective responsibility. With its gripping narrative and insightful themes, “One of Us” is a page-turner that combines elements of “The Wedding People” and “Succession.” It’s darkly comic and incisive, yet it also carries an unexpected sense of hope.

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“The Loneliness of Sonia and Sunny” by Kiran Desai is a remarkable and accomplished novel that showcases the talent of one of our greatest contemporary writers. It was shortlisted for the Booker Prize and is a finalist for the Kirkus Prize. The story follows two young individuals as they navigate the various influences that shape their lives, including their country, class, race, history, and the complex relationships that connect different generations.

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