My Big Climb to Conquer Cancer on April 25, 2026

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Blood Cancer United (BCU): CLIMB, CONQUER, CURE CANCER

Each year, I set out on a meaningful pilgrimage to the top of the One Gateway Center in Newark, a tribute to my beloved wife, Jan, and to everyone touched by the harsh reality of blood cancers. It’s staggering to think that every three minutes, someone in the U.S. receives a diagnosis of leukemia, lymphoma, or myeloma, and heartbreakingly, someone loses their fight every nine minutes.

My annual Big Climb is more than just a climb; it’s a powerful reminder of the resilience of those facing these illnesses and the love we hold for them in our hearts. By participating in the Big Climb, we not only raise funds but also create a meaningful opportunity for supporters like you to join us in the fight against blood cancer. Join me in making a difference and honoring those we’ve lost!

Jan’s courageous battle with blood diseases has profoundly impacted my life, igniting a passion within me to CLIMB, CONQUER, CURE CANCER!. I invite you to join me in this heartfelt mission. Together, we can unite our strength and transform hope into reality for countless individuals affected by these illnesses.

Your tax-deductible support directly fuels the Big Climb event, helping us cover costs and maximize funds raised for blood cancer research and patient support. Let’s make a difference together.

Last year, I set a fundraising goal of $3,000, and with the support of many, I raised an impressive $10,622. For 2026, my goal is $12,000! I have already contributed the first $1,500.

Every day, I challenge myself to walk more and engage in extra stair workouts in preparation for the Big Climb. Whenever I felt like giving up, I found strength in my wife’s story of struggle, which fueled my determination to keep going.

With each step, I remind myself of these words: CLIMB, CONQUER, CURE CANCER! My journey, filled with both highs and lows, is a testament to the resilience of the human spirit.

Please join me in making a difference! No matter the amount, your contribution can have a meaningful impact. As I do every year, I will match every donation made:

  • A $25 donation will be doubled to $50.
  • A $36 donation will be doubled to $72.
  • A $100 donation will be doubled to $200.
  • A $250 donation will be doubled to $500.

Given the recent cuts in federal funding for cancer research, your support has never been more crucial. Every donation helps us continue the fight against cancer and brings hope to those affected. Together, we can make a real difference!

By raising $12,000 in this year’s Big Climb, we can unlock a world of possibilities that will have a meaningful impact, including:

  • Funding a twelve-week research fellowship at BCU, where the fellow will be involved in groundbreaking research that could lead to significant advancements in the fight against blood cancers.
  • Enabling LLS researchers to isolate T-cells from the blood of twelve patients for a promising experimental immunotherapy clinical trial.
  • Covering twenty-four weeks of essential one-on-one and group support for families affected by blood cancer.

On behalf of blood cancer patients everywhere, I thank you for your support!

Blood Cancer United, formerly known as The Leukemia & Lymphoma Society, has played a significant role in advancing treatments that have improved survival rates for blood cancer patients over the years. Many therapies supported by Blood Cancer United not only benefit those with blood cancer but are also being used to treat patients with other types of cancers. For more information about Blood Cancer United, click here.


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The Calamity Club

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The Calamity Club

by Kathryn Stockett

The Calamity Club is an emotional rollercoaster that promises to evoke laughter, tears, and resounding cheers. It is a stirring tribute to the resilience of underestimated women who discover that even amid chaos and misfortune, there is room for transformative new beginnings. Kathryn Stockett showcases her remarkable storytelling prowess, blending confidence, heartfelt emotion, and sharp humor.

This book marks the triumphant return of one of our generation’s most cherished authors, inviting readers into a world where calamity becomes a catalyst for growth and triumph.

Oxford, Mississippi, 1933.

Abandoned by her mother on Christmas Eve, eleven-year-old Meg Lefleur has learned to rely on no one. Now one of the unadoptable “big girls” at the Lafayette County Orphan Asylum, she fights each day to keep her spirit unbroken.

Birdie Calhoun, unmarried and outspoken, comes to Oxford seeking help from her socialite sister for their struggling family. However, as the Great Depression tightens its grip, Birdie discovers that her sister’s seemingly charmed life is actually a tapestry of lies.

Then, Birdie meets Charlie, a woman running low on luck with little left to lose. When their fates—along with Meg’s—converge, Charlie devises an audacious plan for them to take control of their lives. But in an era where hypocrisy is rampant, and women’s freedom is fragile, even the smallest act of defiance can have dangerous consequences.


Kathryn Stockett was born and raised in Jackson, Mississippi. After graduating from the University of Alabama, she moved to New York City, where she spent nine years working in magazine publishing and marketing. Her debut novel, The Help, has sold over 15 million copies worldwide. She currently divides her time between Mississippi and New York City.



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Good Material: A Novel

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Good Material: A Novel

by Dolly Alderton

Today, I started reading “Good Material: A Novel” by Dolly Alderton, the bestselling author of “Ghosts” and “Everything I Know About Love.” This book has been listed as one of The New York Times 100 Notable Books of 2024 and is among their 10 Best Books of 2024. So far, I have read three of the top five fiction books of 2024: “All Fours,” “James,” and “Martyr!.” I plan to read the fifth book, “You Dreamed of Empires,” next.

“Good Material” has received widespread acclaim for exploring heartbreak, friendship, and the various ways to cope with these experiences.

Andy loves Jen. Jen loved Andy. And he can’t work out why she stopped.

Now he is. . .

Without a home

Waiting for his stand-up career to take off

Wondering why everyone else around him seemed to have grown up while he wasn’t looking

Set adrift in the sea of heartbreak, Andy clings to the idea of solving the puzzle of his ruined relationship. Because if he can find the answer, Jen may find her way back to him. But Andy still has much to learn, not least his ex-girlfriend’s side of the story…

In this sharply funny and exquisitely relatable story of romantic disaster and friendship, Dolly Alderton offers up a love story with two endings, demonstrating again why she is one of the most exciting writers today and the authentic voice of a generation. Her writing feels like a conversation with a close friend, making you feel understood and seen.



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Neighbors and Other Stories

Read: February 2024

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Neighbors and Other Stories

by Diane Oliver

Today, I began reading Diane Oliver‘s Neighbors and Other Stories. It’s a powerful and eerie debut collection of stories that portrays the struggles of different characters as they face the everyday dangers of racism during the Jim Crow era. The book features an introduction by Tayari Jones.

Diane Oliver is an important yet often overlooked figure in African American literature of the 20th century. She was a gifted writer, ahead of her time, whose talent was cut short by her untimely death at 22 in 1966. Nevertheless, she left behind a remarkable collection of crisply written and often chilling tales that delve into race and racism in America during the 1950s and 60s. Oliver’s insightful stories remain relevant today; this is the only existing collection of her works. She has rightfully earned her place in the literary canon as a masterful storyteller.

The passage below describes several short stories with different themes. The first story, “The Closet on the Top Floor,” tells the story of Winifred, the first Black student in a newly integrated college. In this story, Winifred begins to disappear, creating a nightmarish scenario. The second story is titled “Mint Juleps not Served Here.” It’s about a couple who live deep in a forest with their son. They will go to bloody lengths to protect him from any danger. The third story, “Spiders Cry without Tears,” features a couple named Meg and Walt. They must confront prejudices and strains of interracial and extramarital love. Finally, the last story is the titular one, and it’s a high-tension narrative that follows a nervous older sister the night before her younger brother is set to desegregate his school.

These are powerful and personal depictions of African American families‘ everyday struggles and moments of distress, illustrating how they utilize their abilities to overcome challenges. “Neighbors” is an enthralling compilation and a valuable historical and social document, displaying the remarkable literary skills of a previously overlooked author.

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Followers

Read: December 2021

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by Megan Angelo

Followers by Megan Angelo is one of NPR’s Books We Love from 2020. Goodreads describes this as an electrifying story of two ambitious friends, the dark choices they make, and the stunning moment that changes the world as we know it forever.

Followers is a novel, but it could easily be read as history with all that has occurred with technology and social media. With the increased discussion of the Metaverse, how close are we to a significant spill of personal information? With the focus on followers defining our culture, how close are we to being manipulated by social media?

As a wannabe blogger, I am impressed by a handful of likes on social media and two comments on my posts. Although I can understand the temptation of Orla and Floss to manipulate the system for their benefit, it is something I know I would not do even if I had the skills.

The spill of personal information is described in a very plausible way. It is not just credit card data but private conversations, photos, and secrets that are spilled and alter the world as we know it. Is this possible? Hopefully not, but without adequate privacy regulations, we may all wake up one day to know that our most private secrets become known by everyone.

Marlow, the daughter of two mothers, along with Orla, provides an option of how we might all leave with less reliance on blue screens. As a secessionist nation in NJ, Atlantis was an interesting alternate reality.

Goodreads provides this overview if you are not convinced to read this book.

Orla Cadden is a budding novelist stuck in a dead-end job, writing clickbait about movie-star hookups and influencer yoga moves. Then Orla meets Floss ― a striving wannabe A-lister ― who comes up with a plan for launching them both into the high-profile lives they dream about. So what if Orla and Floss’s methods are a little shady and sometimes people get hurt? Their legions of followers can’t be wrong.

Thirty-five years later, in a closed California village where government-appointed celebrities live every moment of the day on camera, a woman named Marlow discovers a shattering secret about her past. Despite her massive popularity ― twelve million loyal followers ― Marlow dreams of fleeing the corporate sponsors who would do anything to keep her on-screen. When she learns that her whole family history is based on a lie, Marlow finally summons the courage to run in search of the truth, no matter the risks.

Followers traces the paths of Orla, Floss and Marlow as they wind through time toward each other, and toward a cataclysmic event that sends America into lasting upheaval. At turns wry and tender, bleak and hopeful, this darkly funny story reminds us that even if we obsess over famous people we’ll never meet, what we crave is genuine human connection.

I recommend Followers as not only a good read but an allegory of our technology-dominated culture.

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The Sisters

Read: December 2025

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The Sisters: A Novel

by Jonas Hassen Khemiri

Narrated in six parts, each spanning a time frame from a year to a single minute, Jonas Hassen Khemiri‘s The Sisters is a vivid family saga of exceptional quality—an engaging and entertaining tour de force. The novel has been recognized as one of the New York Times’ Top 10 Books of the Year and longlisted for the 2025 National Book Award for Fiction. Additionally, The New Yorker featured it in their list of 24 Essential Reads for 2025.

Meet the Mikkola sisters: Ina, Evelyn, and Anastasia. Their mother is a Tunisian carpet seller, their father a mysterious Swede who left them when they were young. Ina is tall, serious, and compulsively organized. Evelyn is dreamy, magnetic, and a smooth talker. And Anastasia is moody, chaotic, a shape-shifting presence, quick to anger.

Ina meets her future husband when she’s dragged to a New Year’s rave by her sisters, only to suffer the ultimate betrayal. Evelyn drifts through life before embarking on a wild career as an actress. And Anastasia runs off to Tunisia, where she falls in love with a woman who, years later, will transform her life.

Following the sisters from afar is Jonas, the son of a Swedish mother and a Tunisian father. Over the course of three decades, his life intersects with the sisters, from a chance encounter in Tunis to the scene of a fighter jet crash in Stockholm. When Evelyn disappears on a trip to New York, Jonas manages to track her down—and helps her to break the curse that has been looming over the Mikkolas for decades. In the process, a shocking revelation changes everything they believe about themselves.


Jonas Hassen Khemiri is the author of six novels, seven plays, and a collection of short stories and essays. His writing has been translated into over 35 languages. His novel The Family Clause was a finalist for the National Book Award for Translated Literature and received the Prix Médicis Étranger in France. Khemiri has been a finalist for Sweden’s most prestigious literary prize three times, winning it once. His play Invasion! earned an Obie Award for Best Script.

Khemiri is a recipient of the Cullman Fellowship at the New York Public Library, and his writing has appeared in The New York Times, The New Yorker, and numerous other publications. His novel The Sisters is his first book written in English. Khemiri lives in Brooklyn with his family and teaches creative writing at New York University (NYU).



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My Evil Mother: A Short Story

Read: April 2022

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My Evil Mother: A Short Story

by Margaret Atwood

My Evil Mother: A Short Story by Margaret Atwood was a free book with your Prime Reading membership. I have always enjoyed reading Ms. Atwood’s books. My Evil Mother was an enjoyable read and reminded me why she is a great author and why short stories are unique and special. As the NY Times described, My Evil Mother, is a bittersweet short story about mothers, daughters’ witches’ brew of love—and control. I highly recommend it as it is one of my best books this year. 

Goodreads provides a concise overview.

Life is hard enough for a teenage girl in 1950s suburbia without having a mother who may—or may not—be a witch. A single mother at that. Sure, she fits in with her starched dresses, string of pearls, and floral aprons. Then there are the hushed and mystical consultations with neighborhood women in distress. The unsavory, mysterious plants in the flower beds. The divined warning to steer clear of a boyfriend whose fate is certainly doomed. But as the daughter of this bewitching homemaker comes of age and her mother’s claims become more and more outlandish, she begins to question everything she once took for granted.

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