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I am an Incurable Romantic Living Alone

The essence of life lies in living it to the fullest, but what if we find ourselves living it all alone? The words of Lauren Groff from her book “The Vaster Wilds” resonate with my situation, as she rightly pointed out that to exist alone and survive is not the same as being alive. Although I strive to make the most of my life by reading, writing, walking, offering help to others, and serving as the board chair for Bridges, I still feel that I am merely surviving from one day to the next.

My wife, Jan, was right when she advised me against living alone. However, my quest for love is not solely to have someone’s physical presence next to me. Love is what I truly seek. I may sound old-fashioned, but love is the most potent force in the world. It can transform our lives from mundane routines to truly fulfilling ones. Humanity’s only hope for redemption is in love and through love.

Love is a wondrous emotion that blossoms between two individuals who share an unconditional bond. Despite the difficulties that may arise on the path of love, I hold on to the hope that it will find its way to me at the right time, even if it means traversing the journey alone for a while. I place my trust in the wisdom of my loved ones and remain receptive to the incredible opportunities that await me along the road of life.

Dear reader, I have written a lengthy post about my personal experience with love after experiencing loss, but I’m still uncertain if I’m ready to share it. I consider myself a hopeless romantic, and true love is all that matters. My wife, Jan, and I have gone through all the highs and lows of love just like everybody else, but I have realized that there was something special about what we shared.

Although our love wasn’t perfect, it was strong enough to hold us together like a crocheted blanket, wrapping us in warmth and comfort. The imperfections in our relationship only made it more special and unique, like the intricate patterns woven into the blanket. Our love was a beautiful creation that kept us safe and warm, and it will always hold a special place in my heart.

Love is a multifaceted emotion that can manifest in various forms and sizes. It’s not just a simple four-letter word but a feeling that is hard to define. The words that I shared at the beginning of this stream were initially the conclusion of my post, but now they serve as the opening statement. Even if the post remains private, these paragraphs will always hold a special place as a true romantic in my heart.

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I am an Incurable Romantic Living Alone