Sharing Jan’s Love Allows Me to Live Fully!
Jans Love is as Free as the Birds in Hanson Park
Estimated reading time: 1 minute, 57 seconds
On Monday, I visited Jan’s Memorial Garden in Hanson Park with my friends Ron and Deborah. We caught up on how I’ve been doing in the two-plus years since her death. Whenever I’m in the park, I feel closer to Jan than on the thousands of days or nights we spent together. I always enjoy showing my friends the Wind Sculpture, benches, and other park activities.
Sharing ideas on the benefits of gardening and how it can help build community, I felt that the blood, sweat, and tears I spent on building Jan’s Memorial Garden were worthwhile. Over lunch at IL Gabbiano Italian Bistro, I remembered Ron had called me the day Jan died. After expressing his condolences, he said I was a resilient individual and that this trait would assist me in moving forward without Jan. When he spoke, I was uncertain how or if resilience could help me manage the loss of the love of my life.
In hindsight, embracing adaptability as a core value has helped me cope with the challenges of being a widow. Instead of clinging to the love I shared with my late spouse, Jan, I freely shared her love with everyone I encountered. If I had kept Jan’s love to myself, it would have sealed her spirit into a time capsule, ending her life and legacy. But by sharing her love, Jan’s spirit inspires and motivates us to improve the world. Her love is now as free as the birds in Hanson Park. It’s incredible how sharing love causes it to return to me, more vibrant than ever.
Jan’s unwavering love has been a source of strength and direction for me through life’s challenges. Thanks to her support, I can now live with an open heart, embracing the beauty of love in all its forms.
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Is Resilience My Hidden Power?
Adaptability has been explored in depth in the context of prevention strategies, with "The Art of Being Adaptable" in Prevention offering valuable insights into the subject matter. This work posits that adaptability is crucial in any successful prevention strategy and provides potential solutions for cultivating and maintaining this trait. Focusing on the importance of flexibility, resilience, and open-mindedness, this work offers practical advice on adapting to changing circumstances. Ultimately, by embracing adaptability as a core value, individuals and organizations can better prepare themselves for challenges.
Jan's love has been my guiding light, even in the darkest times. Her unwavering devotion has given me the strength to persevere through life's obstacles.
The Awesome Power of Love
Jans Love is as Free as the Birds in Hanson Park
Estimated reading time: 1 minute, 57 seconds
Sharing Jan's love through the garden and the people whose lives she touched has been incredibly fulfilling and has helped me manage my grief.
I've also been inspired by Viktor E. Frankl's observation that "love is the ultimate goal in life." Jan's love will continue to live on through the garden and in my heart, inspiring me daily.
