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Resilience Despite Exhaustion

Resilience Despite Exhaustion!

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Remembering Jan at Camp Widow!I have always believed that I am a very resilient person. Jan’s love improved my resilience.

Even on the darkest days, I could pick myself up, dust off the dirt, and keep going.

Having survived the summer heat waves, I was sure I would be able to weather any storms.

For some reason, I have found myself more exhausted than ever, and my capacity to manage my grief and live life thoroughly is in doubt.

Reading David Brooks in the NY Times this morning, I was reminded of the late Frederick Buechner‘s quote on faith.

Faith is homesickness. Faith is a lump in the throat. Faith is less a position on than a movement toward.

Perhaps instead of exhaustion, I miss Jan as if I were a homesick first-year college student. The lump in my throat keeps me from focusing on the prize.

One day at a time, I bounce back from life’s unfair roadblocks and continue my grief journey of love and faith.

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Dust Myself Off and Keep Going

Dust Myself Off and Start Over

Jan and I believed in the message in the lyrics by Nat King Cole,

Pick yourself up... Take a deep breath... Dust yourself off And start all over again.

I am reminded of those words as I approach the final hours of my move to a smaller apartment.

Richard W. Brown July 28, 2022

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