Rev. Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr., Service Award

Am I a Grinch or a Mensch?

On the first Sunday of 2024, I waited for my turn to vote for a new rabbi at the Temple Sha’arey Shalom congregational meeting. Several fellow members of the Search Committee had informed me that they had identified an excellent candidate. When Rav Uri Allen played the guitar and spoke about Tu B’Shevat, the New Year of the Trees, I knew we had found our new rabbi.

When it was time to vote, I responded, “I vote yes enthusiastically,

After watching “Welcome to the Big Dipper,” Arnold and I stopped for dinner at Blenoir Crepes and Cafe. While we waited for our food, I quickly texted my son Mike to let him know and see if he could come. He replied, “I’ll see what we can do. That’s exciting!”

I then texted Rav Uri to inform him about the situation and asked if he could attend and participate if I managed to get Cindy and Skip to agree. While I waited for his response, our food arrived. I shared the news with Arnold and invited him to join me for the award.

His response was positive and reassuring.

“Mazal Tov! What an honor! Well deserved. It will be my honor to be with you for this event. I am happy to participate in the service.

Cindy agreed to include Rav Uri. When he spoke, his four thoughts moved my body and soul. Even though I had only known him for a year, his words reflected my life better than those of people I had known for years.

In this short video, Rav Uri provided four reasons I received the award. His words almost brought me to tears, indicating that I had found my way to a life of meaning and purpose despite my loss.

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