Small Talk, Long Walk

Small Talk, Long Walk

Estimated reading time: 1 minute, 15 seconds

SwanSmall talk is one of the keys to happiness.

I always engage in conversation, even if all I say is have a nice day.

Whenever possible, I take the time to extend the conversation.

One morning this week, I was walking in Nomehegan Park when I was initially passed by a woman jogging with her dog.

We had passed each other over several months but had not said more than hello.

On that day, I mentioned how we could not see the lake due to the fog rising from the melting ice.

We chatted about the lake’s condition and how maintenance could be improved.

Is that a Swan,” my new friend asked?

We halted to watch a swan bathe by the lake’s edge.

“She seems to be embarrased having us look at her taking a bath,” I said.

“if you bathe in public you cannot be embarrased if people look at you,” she responded.

Not Shakseperian, but the small talk made us happier and the balance of our morning exercise more enjoyable.

Small talk works!


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These Feet Were Made for Walking

On Friday, the temperature for my morning walk was 55 degrees Fahrenheit.

Today was the polar opposite.

The reading on my Weather app was 5 Fahrenheit (-15 Celsius). With the wind, it felt like -13 Fahrenheit (-25 Celsius).

Yesterday, I walked 7.26 miles. Today I could only go 4.34 miles as nature, exacerbated by the cold, made an urgent call.

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Small Talk, Long Walk

Being Nice is a Miracle

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As I finished my walk on North Union Avenue in front of Oasis Restaurant this morning, I saw a woman, I had never met, with a purse on one arm, a bag on the other, and a cup of coffee in her hand.

She was paying for parking at the meter with difficulty, including dropping quarters on the ground.

“Can I hold the coffee?”

She agreed, and I then mentioned the quarters on the ground.

After she paid for the parking, I spoke.

“Have a good day! May you be blessed with happiness every day in the New Year!”

She responded, “Thank you, that is so nice.”

Being Nice to others is a minor miracle we should do.

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The Future Is Peace

by Aziz Abu Sarah and Maoz Inon

The Future Is Peace: A Shared Journey Across the Holy Land” explores the experiences of two lifelong peace activists, Aziz Abu Sarah and Maoz Inon, who serve as guides in Israel and Palestine. Both have personally endured loss due to the ongoing conflict. They lead readers on a profound and transformative journey through this sacred yet tumultuous land, revealing the historical, political, and personal narratives that both divide and connect their communities and peoples.

We do not see ourselves as Palestinians and Israelis, or as Jews and Arabs, but as human beings who believe in fostering a culture of dialogue, a culture of forgiveness, and a culture of peace. To those who see only division lines, we say: If you must divide us, let it be as those who believe in peace and equality and those who don’t… yet.”

Palestinian Aziz Abu Sarah and Maoz Inon forged a bond of brotherhood when the world expected them to be enemies. Both have lost family to the conflict. Both have known the bitterness of righteous anger. Yet, they chose a different path.

In The Future Is Peace, Sarah and Inon take readers on a transformative weeklong journey across a sacred and bloodstained land. Facing competing narratives, they explore how compassion and unity can pull humanity back from the precipice of blind hatred. Throughout their travels, they have been asked again and again: In the face of so much loss, how can we ever find hope? Their answer is always the same. One cannot find hope. We must create it.

This book is a rebuttal to a broken world and a bold challenge to the belief that more violence can ever bring security. Told with unflinching honesty, their story is proof that peace is not a naive dream, but a courageous choice—for reconciliation to heal the wounds of revenge, for partnerships to change a destiny of war, and for empathy to save us from drowning in sorrow.

Pairing unapologetic candor with inspirational prose, Sarah and Inon are sending an urgent message: the people have the power to make change. Peace is inevitable. For Palestinians, for Israelis, and for the world that awaits their example, it is not just possible—it is the future.


Aziz Abu Sarah serves as Co-CEO of InterAct International, a nonprofit organization dedicated to promoting peace in the Middle East. He is a peacebuilder, entrepreneur, National Geographic Explorer, TED Fellow, and a respected speaker and trainer in conflict resolution and responsible travel.

Aziz is also the co-founder of MEJDI Tours, a travel company aiming to transform tourism into a powerful tool for citizen diplomacy. He has received numerous accolades, including awards from the United Nations, the Institute of International Education, and the Explorers Club.

Recognized as one of the world’s 500 most influential Muslims by the Royal Islamic Strategic Studies Center in Jordan, Aziz has contributed opinion pieces to prominent publications such as The New York Times, The Washington Post, Al-Quds, and Haaretz.

Maoz Inon is the Co-CEO of InterAct International, a nonprofit organization dedicated to promoting peace in the Middle East. He is a peace activist from Israel and an entrepreneur. In recognition of his efforts, he has received the prestigious Franco-German Human Rights Prize and the Shared Living Award from Abraham Initiatives.

He has spoken before audiences on Capitol Hill, at universities across the United States, and in the European Parliament. Additionally, Inon has contributed articles to various publications, including The Washington Post, Al Jazeera, and Haaretz.

He has also founded several initiatives aimed at fostering peace in Israel and the Middle East, including the Jesus Trail, Fauzi Azar Inn, and the Abraham Hostel & Tour brands.



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